Someone can love me…

by Brian on 6/13/2004

Guess I should just clarify a bit the stuff that I said in my last post in response to my anonymous friend’s comment. ;)

Well, I was going to write something to clarify what I said, but I’m not really sure now that I thought about it for a bit. Maybe a certain level of respect means that we know God loves us, and that there are some people out there who can love us back, even when we think that the whole world is out to get us, and that nobody could possibly love us. It’s when we loose the bitterness and frustration that you’re having a hard time maintaining friendships because everyone around you thinks you are nonchalant, uncaring, unexpressive, and so on… When I loose that bitterness and frustration I gain a lot of peace, joy, love, faithfulness and gentleness that helps in reaching out to others. Maybe it’s less about having a certain amount of respect, and more, as you said, about being humble and just forgetting about my own problems and issues and helping others instead.

I am also kind of thinking more so our relationships with our brothers and sisters in Christ. How do we express our love to other Christians? First of all, why do we love other Christians?

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  • nickolas
    Why, you ask? Man, sometimes its hard not to. When you've put yourself right in the path of the Spirit, and you're just filled to the brim, how can you do anything but?
    The flip-side of that? When you're not filled with the spirit? Its easy not to. Unfortunately, it also makes you feel like crap.
    I think it really comes down to why not love them? Why even differentiate between Christian or not, before we delegate love? Why do we love Christians? A better question would be a more nihilistic "Why do we love anyone?"
    I do it as a legalistic interpretation of Christ's "Greaat Commission", and that if I love enough people in my lifetime, then when I get to the ol' pearlies, I'll get let in on bonus 'conversion' points.... Obviously, I'm bein' sarcastic.
    I'm not sure what I'm gibbering on about... I just think that sometimes, instead of having to feel "peace, joy, love, faithfulness and gentleness" in order to help in loving people, I find that they don't encourage, but spring from loving people. Its circular, too. You don't HAVE to be joyful to love, but it helps, and loving encourages joyfullness, etc.
    Im done. Sorry for taking up space.
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